Thursday, November 22, 2012
The Whole Story
In the initial post, I recap all the e-mails I had sent out.
Then just select "Newer Post" and you can read the story as it unfolded.
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Life After Trudie
The Bartkus Battle is over. Jesus won; death lost. Trudie is celebrating on streets of gold.
A New Blog
In the mean time, I'm continuing to trust and follow Jesus. I'm starting out on a new journey. I have no idea where it will lead.
I've started a new blog. I've titled it "Adventures in Following Jesus." You can find it at http://wwjl.net (Where Will Jesus Lead).
Come along and see where this adventure takes me next.
Trudie's Obituary
Sunday, December 2, 2007
Memorial Service
On Tuesday, November 27, 2007, the Memorial Service for Trudie was held at North Point Community Church.
Below is the program and links to the videos (the audio is not very good so turn your speakers up):
The Celebration of the Life of
Trudie Bartkus
August 20, 1949 --- November 22, 2007
Pre-Service Music Mr. Bill DeLoach
Greeting and Invocation Mr. Cliff Atfield
Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing Congregational Hymn
Psalm 23 Mr. Drew Leonard
On Christ The Solid Rock Congregational Hymn
Personal Remembrances The Myrtles - Jeannie
Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 Mr. Paul Hanna
Jeremiah 29:10-12
The Gardner’s Gloves Rev. Dr. Bob Culver Part 1 Part 2
Benediction Rev. Dr. Bob Culver
Dismissal and Information Mr. Cliff Atfield
If I can find a way to post the text of the comments, I'll do that.
Sunday, November 25, 2007
It's A Lot of Decisions
The visitation is tomorrow evening. To get to this point I've had to make a lot of decisions. Let me walk you through the decisions I've had to make. Luckily, I've had the help of a number of caring friends who have been with me all along.
The first big decision was:
- The Funeral Home
I had asked a friend to investigate various funeral home options - thinking that we had weeks before the end. Unfortunately, the suddenness of Trudie's death caught the friend before they really had a chance to pursue many options. Luckily, our church has dealt with a number of funeral homes and had a couple of options that they suggested. We chose Roswell Funeral Home.
When I say "we" what I mean is that I decided with the help of some very close friends who flew to my side that night. They were there at the hospice in less than an hour after I called them. They have been my other half-of-a-brain through out these days.
Meetings, meetings, meetings
The next day I had to make many more decisions. The first was:
- The overall structure of the process
- Where to hold the visitation/viewing & the funeral
- When to hold the visitation/viewing & the funeral
- Funeral Home services, casket, and grave liner/vault
- What Song Style
- Minister
- Pallbearers
- Order of Service
All in all it has been a lot of work. Like I've said, I have been operating on only half-of-a-brain for at least a couple of months. Now I have even fewer brain "noodles" on-line. So my good friends that have been with me have been invaluable to me. They offered awesome advice and help during this time. I thank you every one.
Help your Heirs
Trudie and I had discussed some of the above details but not much. Most of what I have had to decide were S.W.A.G.s. My friends and I made the best guesses we could on most of the things we had to decide.
Do your heirs a favor - talk about these issues. We will all someday be as Trudie is now - dead. How can you help, today, those left behind? There are lots of questions I still didn't get around to asking Trudie. I can't ask now. You have time now to investigate these issues and to discuss these issues with your loved ones especially your spouse. Just say, "Sweetie, with Trudie's passing it has got me thinking about my own passing..." It will be hard; it will take courage; it probably won't be fun. And your spouse will love you more for initiating it.
By the way, you do have a will don't you?
Friday, November 23, 2007
Funeral Details
Viewing and Visiting - Monday, Nov 26th, 6 PM to 8 PM Roswell Funeral Home
Service - Tuesday, Nov 27th, 10 AM at Northpoint Community Church
Locations
Roswell Funeral Home, 950 Mansell Road, Roswell, GA 30076 770-993-4811
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Northpoint Community Church, 4350 Northpoint Parkway, Alpharetta, Georgia 30022
Here are the directions on the Church's Web Site.
Floral Hills Memory Gardens, 3000 Lawrenceville Highway, Tucker, GA 30084
Directions will be handed out at the church.
Instead of flowers:
Please consider a donation to Trudie's favorite charity:
Salvation Army
Online at salvationarmy.org
Phone 1-800-SAL-ARMY (or 800-725-2769)
Mail:
Salvation Army
Atlanta Area Command
PO Box 95766
Atlanta, GA 30347
How am I doing?
I guess I'm doing pretty well considering...
I have made all these plans today with the help of some very dear and close friends. They were my other half of my brain since I'm only working on half a brain for sure. My brother, sister and brother-in-law are with me now and we will spend the evening together.
I'm very sad to say the least but I know she is in a better place and is not in any pain. I am still taking things one day at a time. God is in control and Jesus is helping me every step of the way. Thank you all for the outpouring of support I've had. I appreciate it. If I don't answer each personally please forgive me.
Patrick
Thursday, November 22, 2007
Trudie has passed on to Glory
It is with great earthly sadness that I must inform you of Trudie's passing from this life into the next. Patrick received a phone call from Heartland Hospice this Thanksgiving day evening sometime around 8:15 pm that Trudie had passed on. She and Patrick both fought so hard. They were thankful to be out of the hospital, for them to able to converse, and for Trudie to be more comfortable. I know of no other details at this time, but I will post them as I learn more.
When I spoke to Patrick he was on his way to the hospice having just heard this sad news. Your prayers and support, in so many ways, have been helpful and appreciated. God has called Trudie to her new home with Him and all who believe, prepared well in advance for her glorious arrival. She is at peace and she is well. All who knew her in this life will surely miss her. Let us all join in prayer for Patrick and all who grieve Trudie's passing. She will be missed. The Holy Spirit is The Great Comforter and He is near to all who are broken hearted. May you find Him now.
Trudie knew the truth expressed in Hebrews 10:19 and following: "And so, dear brothers and sisters, we can boldly enter heaven's Most Holy Place because of the blood of Jesus. By His death, Jesus opened a new and life-giving way through the curtain into the Most Holy Place. And since we have a great High Priest who rules over God's house, let us go right into the presence of God with sincere hearts fully trusting Him... Let us hold tightly without wavering to the hope we affirm, for God can be trusted to keep His promise."
I will post funeral details as I learn them.
Sincerely,
Paul Hanna