Limbo
Again, Trudie is not better and not worse. The Dr. has suggested that we consider moving her to a hospice. So this afternoon Avery and I met with a Case Manager and a hospice representative. We both feel that this is move would be in Trudie's best interest.
Giving Up?
Both Trudie and we are getting hospital burn-out. The hospice can be a more pleasant setting for Trudie and us to get through her next stage. What will that stage en tale? Our crystal ball is still broken and so only God knows what will happen and we are in His hands. All I know is that what we are doing isn't working so well and so we need to do something else. The change of scenery will probably lift her spirits. She may get to where she is ready for the hip surgery. But in the mean time, we will be able to be with her more and she will have better surroundings. So, no, I don't consider hospice giving up; we just are trying something different.
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2 comments:
Hang in there...hospice is another service of care...nurses, pain management, and support...not
"giving up" ...a respite to sort out each day's priorities...sharing of caregiver responsibilities...
all is in God's hands.
my love and prayers,
Trudie's old friend,
Tere
A hospice can be full of friendly, hands-on care and nursing care that is personal, caring, and personally identifies with their patients. The rooms are warm and comforting and she will be able to receive visitors at all times. Trudie and you are still in our prayers. Be strong; be brave. We care.
Jewel
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